Self

Challenges

The Self Developmental Path

Each phase has its own page. Open a phase for the introduction, the challenges, and the reflection. Completed means you did the practice. It is not a score.

1. Phase I · SEPARATE

   SEPARATE

   WHO AM I WHEN I AM NOT PERFORMING A ROLE?

   FROM ROLE TO SELF

   4 challenges

2. Phase II · REMEMBER

   REMEMBER

   WHAT CONNECTS THE PERSON I WAS WITH THE PERSON I AM?

   THE CONTINUITY OF SELF

   4 challenges

3. Phase III · DISCERN

   DISCERN

   WHAT DO I ACTUALLY LIKE, WANT, AND PREFER WHEN I STOP EXPLAINING WHY?

   DISCERN

   4 challenges

4. Phase IV · QUESTION

   QUESTION

   WHICH PARTS OF ME WERE GIVEN TO ME BEFORE I COULD CHOOSE THEM?

   THE IDENTITIES I INHERITED

   4 challenges

5. Phase V · RECONCILE

   RECONCILE

   CAN DIFFERENT PARTS OF ME BE TRUE AT THE SAME TIME?

   THE CONTRADICTIONS WITHIN ME

   4 challenges

6. Phase VI · ACCEPT

   ACCEPT

   CAN I RECOGNIZE MYSELF WITHOUT CONSTANTLY TRYING TO IMPRESS, FIX, OR PROVE MYSELF?

   THE SELF WITHOUT PERFORMANCE

   4 challenges

7. Phase VII · DEFINE

   DEFINE

   CAN I DESCRIBE MYSELF ACCURATELY WITHOUT MAKING MYSELF SMALLER OR LARGER THAN I AM?

   LANGUAGE FOR THE PERSON I AM

   4 challenges

8. Phase VIII · AUTHOR

   AUTHOR

   WHAT QUALITIES DO I WANT TO CULTIVATE UNTIL THEY BECOME PART OF WHO I AM?

   INTENTIONAL IDENTITY DEVELOPMENT

   4 challenges

9. Phase IX · INTEGRATE

   INTEGRATE

   CAN I REMAIN MYSELF WHILE ADAPTING TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE, PLACES, AND CIRCUMSTANCES?

   ONE SELF, MANY CONTEXTS

   4 challenges

10. Phase X · EVOLVE

    EVOLVE

    CAN I LET MY IDENTITY EVOLVE WITHOUT TREATING CHANGE AS BETRAYAL?

    REMAINING YOURSELF WHILE BECOMING SOMEONE NEW

    4 challenges